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<p>"As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man" Proverbs 27:19.</p>
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<p>"...until we all...become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming" Ephesians 4:13-14.</p>
<p>The condition of our heart is the key to our life in Christ (Proverbs 4:23; Matthew 6:21). God searches our hearts, revealing areas that will block our relationship with Him (1 Samuel 16:7; Romans 8:27).</p>
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<p>God's plan is for each believer to grow into a balanced, mature son of God (see Romans 8:14, Rom 8:28-30).</p>
<p><strong>Three Gifts of Forgiveness</strong></p>
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<p>But maturity needs a standard. We are not called to "measure ourselves by ourselves" (2 Corinthians 10:12). No, the measure of our growth is "the whole measure of the fullness of Christ."</p>
<p>"I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more" Isaiah 43:25 (see also Psalm 103:1-3; Micah 7:19).</p>
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<p>"...And I pray that you...may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God" Ephesians 3:17, Eph 3:19 (see also Colossians 2:9-10).</p>
<p>The Bible talks about three gifts of forgiveness:</p>
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<p><strong>The Nature of God</strong></p>
<p><strong>The forgiveness God gives to us</strong> (1 John 1:9; Luke 7:47).</p>
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<p>"And [God] passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, 'The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation'" Exodus 34:6-7.</p>
<p><strong>The forgiveness we give to ourselves</strong> (Phil.3:13-14).</p>
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<p>God is not only perfect in His nature and character, He is also perfectly balanced. He is a holy God (1 Samuel 2:2; Isaiah 6:1-3), yet also a God of love (Psalm 145:17; 1 John 4:8).</p>
<p><strong>The forgiveness we give to others</strong> (Luke 17:3-4).</p>
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<p>He is a God of patience (Romans 2:4; 1 Timothy 1:16; 2 Peter 3:9), yet is also a God of justice (Isaiah 5:16) and a God of faithfulness (1 Corinthians 1:9; Hebrews 10:23).</p>
<p>"Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you" Colossians 3:13 (see also Ephesians 4:32).</p>
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<p>He is a God who demonstrates His righteous anger (Psalm 7:11), yet is also a God full of mercy and compassion (Isaiah 55:7; Lamentations 3:22-23).</p>
<p>These three gifts of forgiveness are important in our lives. We must understand God's gift of forgiveness to us, through the shed blood of Jesus (Colossians 1:13-14; 1 Peter 1:2).</p>
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<p>God's nature remains unchanged (Malachi 3:6) but every part of it is in perfect balance with every other part.</p>
<p>But we must also learn to forgive ourselves - which simply means receiving God's gift of forgiveness and agreeing with it. Now we are obliged to forgive others. If we refuse to forgive others, then unforgiveness will block the daily expression of God's forgiveness in our lives.</p>
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<p>"Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; love and faithfulness go before you" Psalm 89:14 (see also Psa 85:10-11; Jeremiah 9:23-24).</p>
<p>"For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins" Matthew 6:14-15 (read also Matt 18:21-35).</p>
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<p>The nature of God is the measuring line of our maturity. We are told to be:</p>
<p><strong>Stages of Unforgiveness</strong><br /> <strong>Initial hurt</strong> - someone says or does something that wounds our hearts (Psalm 109:22).</p>
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<p>Loving like God (1 John 4:11-12; 2 Thes.3:5).</p>
<p><strong>Resentment</strong> - if we don't deal with it straight away, we begin to harbour resentment. Our hearts dwell on the hurt. We are filled with self-pity and a continuing anger against the person who hurt us (Colossians 3:8-10,12-14).</p>
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<p>Holy like God (1 Peter 1:15-16).</p>
<p><strong>Retaliation</strong> - we get back at that person, usually either by not speaking to them, or by slandering them to others (Romans 12:17-20).</p>
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<p>Faithful like God (Psalm 18:25).</p>
<p><strong>Bitterness</strong> - this is where we allow unforgiveness to defile our hearts (Hebrews 12:15; Ephesians 4:29-32).</p>
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<p>Patient like God (Galatians 5:22; Colossians 3:12).</p>
<p><strong>Living One Day at a Time</strong></p>
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<p>Merciful like God (Luke 6:36; James 3:17).</p>
<p>"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own" Matthew 6:34.</p>
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<p>Forgiving like God (Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13).</p>
<p>Many Christians are either a prisoner of the future (through worry) or a prisoner of the past (through guilt and unforgiveness). God wants to set us free so that we can live each day with Him - a day at a time.</p>
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<p>Balanced like God (Matthew 5:48).</p>
<p>"'In your anger do not sin': Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold" Ephesians 4:26-27.</p>
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<p>The Bible uses the word "godliness" to describe being balanced like God. Godliness means being like God in thought, word and behaviour. It means showing His love as well as His holiness, His justice as well as His mercy.</p>
<p>One simple principle in forgiveness is not to allow feelings of hurt and unforgiveness to enter a second day. Each evening we can get things right with God and with others. One other provision God has made is the communion table. Whenever we partake of the Lord's Supper together, we are instructed to make sure we are not holding anything against a brother or sister (1 Corinthians 11:27-31).</p>
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<p>"His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness" 2 Peter 1:3 (see also 2 Peter 1:5-8; Titus 1:1; Titus 2:12; 1 Timothy 4:7-8; 1 Timothy 6:11).</p>
<p><strong>A Continuing Debt</strong></p>
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<p><strong>What Balance is Not</strong></p>
<p>"Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another..." Romans 13:8.</p>
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<p>Balance is not compromise. Compromise is based not on a desire to please God, but to please and accommodate man. In contrast to compromise, God's principles always stand firm (1 Peter 1:24-25). For this reason God hates:</p>
<p>When Jesus died for you, he took the judgement you deserved.</p>
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<p><strong>Lukewarmness</strong></p>
<p>You now owe Him a massive debt which you have no ability to repay.</p>
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<p>"I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm - neither hot nor cold - I am about to spit you out of my mouth" Rev.3:15-16.</p>
<p>But God doesn't require you to repay it -except in one way: God has transferred this debt to Him onto others around us. We are now indebted to everyone. The only way we repay this continuing debt is by forgiving one another.</p>
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<p>Lukewarmness is one of the worst forms of compromise, for it affects our relationship with God. It is a rejection of God's love that brings more hurt to His heart than even fully turning one's back on Him. John states uncompromisingly:</p>
<p>When we consider how great our debt is to the Lord, is this too big to ask? We now express our love to God by loving others. We cannot be close to God while harbouring hatred and unforgiveness.</p>
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<p>"Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him" 1 John 2:15 (see also 2 Corinthians 6:14-18).</p>
<p>"If anyone says, 'I love God,' yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen" 1 John 4:20.</p>
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<p><strong>Double-mindedness</strong></p>
<p>When we forgive others, we acknowledge several things:</p>
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<p>"But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does" James 1:6-8.</p>
<p>God's love for us (Matt.18:21-35; Luke 6:36; John 13:34-35; Psalm 103:7-14).</p>
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<p>Double-mindedness is a hindrance to spiritual growth. God does not want us to constantly swing from one direction to another. He wants our eyes to be fixed firmly upon Himself.</p>
<p>Our love for God (Luke 7:47; 1 John 4:20).</p>
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<p>"Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith..." Hebrews 12:2.</p>
<p>Our trust in God's justice (2 Thessalonians 1:3-7).</p>
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<p>Jesus declared, "I am the truth" (John 14:6). Just as our physical body needs a focal point to keep its balance, so Jesus is the focal point for our spiritual balance. He is the focus of all truth in God's word (John 5:39). We are walking in balance only when we have the Lord Jesus as our focal point.</p>
<p>Our faith in God's plan for us (Romans 8:28).</p>
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<p><strong>The Key to Balance</strong></p>
<p>Our readiness to suffer abuse (Matt.5:11-12).</p>
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<p>"...clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience...Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity" Colossians 3:12-14.</p>
<p>Our enemy is not people (Ephesians 6:12).</p>
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<p>The key to the balance of God's nature is found in love. True love takes the attention off ourselves and puts it onto other people. This kind of love acts like a balancing wheel for all other aspects of God's nature:</p>
<p>Our secure position in Christ (Col.1:1-4).</p>
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<p>Knowledge (1 Corinthians 8:1-3).</p>
<p>If I forgive, will the hurt I feel go away? Probably not immediately. But forgiveness has nothing to do with feelings. Forgiveness is a decision. Forgetting is a process. If we decide not to forgive, the hurt is like an open, festering wound, which is very difficult to heal. When we make the decision to forgive, the hurt is cleaned up, and the healing process is then quick.</p>
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<p>Power (Nahum 1:2-7; 1 Cor.13:1-2; 2 Tim.1:7).</p>
<p><strong>Healing the Heart</strong></p>
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<p>Holiness (Nehemiah 9:17-21).</p>
<p>"He heals the broken-hearted and binds up their wounds" Psa.147:3.</p>
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<p>Faith (Galatians 5:6).</p>
<p>God is able to heal every heart. In fact, this is part of the Gospel message (Isaiah 61:1). But more than that, God wants to use us to minister that healing to others. Only when we have experienced both the personal forgiveness of God and the grace to forgive others can we be used to minister healing to others.</p>
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<p>"Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ" Eph.4:15 (see also Eph 4:24).</p>
<p>"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God" 2 Corinthians 1:3-4.</p>
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<p>Christian growth means growing in the likeness of God's nature. As we grow in our understanding of God's nature, the Holy Spirit works to conform us to that nature (Romans 8:29).</p>
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<p>"And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God" Col.1:10 (see also Col 1:25-28).</p>
  
 
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Revision as of 00:30, 14 February 2011

"...until we all...become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming" Ephesians 4:13-14.

God's plan is for each believer to grow into a balanced, mature son of God (see Romans 8:14, Rom 8:28-30).

But maturity needs a standard. We are not called to "measure ourselves by ourselves" (2 Corinthians 10:12). No, the measure of our growth is "the whole measure of the fullness of Christ."

"...And I pray that you...may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God" Ephesians 3:17, Eph 3:19 (see also Colossians 2:9-10).

The Nature of God

"And [God] passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, 'The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation'" Exodus 34:6-7.

God is not only perfect in His nature and character, He is also perfectly balanced. He is a holy God (1 Samuel 2:2; Isaiah 6:1-3), yet also a God of love (Psalm 145:17; 1 John 4:8).

He is a God of patience (Romans 2:4; 1 Timothy 1:16; 2 Peter 3:9), yet is also a God of justice (Isaiah 5:16) and a God of faithfulness (1 Corinthians 1:9; Hebrews 10:23).

He is a God who demonstrates His righteous anger (Psalm 7:11), yet is also a God full of mercy and compassion (Isaiah 55:7; Lamentations 3:22-23).

God's nature remains unchanged (Malachi 3:6) but every part of it is in perfect balance with every other part.

"Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne; love and faithfulness go before you" Psalm 89:14 (see also Psa 85:10-11; Jeremiah 9:23-24).

The nature of God is the measuring line of our maturity. We are told to be:

Loving like God (1 John 4:11-12; 2 Thes.3:5).

Holy like God (1 Peter 1:15-16).

Faithful like God (Psalm 18:25).

Patient like God (Galatians 5:22; Colossians 3:12).

Merciful like God (Luke 6:36; James 3:17).

Forgiving like God (Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13).

Balanced like God (Matthew 5:48).

The Bible uses the word "godliness" to describe being balanced like God. Godliness means being like God in thought, word and behaviour. It means showing His love as well as His holiness, His justice as well as His mercy.

"His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness" 2 Peter 1:3 (see also 2 Peter 1:5-8; Titus 1:1; Titus 2:12; 1 Timothy 4:7-8; 1 Timothy 6:11).

What Balance is Not

Balance is not compromise. Compromise is based not on a desire to please God, but to please and accommodate man. In contrast to compromise, God's principles always stand firm (1 Peter 1:24-25). For this reason God hates:

Lukewarmness

"I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm - neither hot nor cold - I am about to spit you out of my mouth" Rev.3:15-16.

Lukewarmness is one of the worst forms of compromise, for it affects our relationship with God. It is a rejection of God's love that brings more hurt to His heart than even fully turning one's back on Him. John states uncompromisingly:

"Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him" 1 John 2:15 (see also 2 Corinthians 6:14-18).

Double-mindedness

"But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does" James 1:6-8.

Double-mindedness is a hindrance to spiritual growth. God does not want us to constantly swing from one direction to another. He wants our eyes to be fixed firmly upon Himself.

"Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith..." Hebrews 12:2.

Jesus declared, "I am the truth" (John 14:6). Just as our physical body needs a focal point to keep its balance, so Jesus is the focal point for our spiritual balance. He is the focus of all truth in God's word (John 5:39). We are walking in balance only when we have the Lord Jesus as our focal point.

The Key to Balance

"...clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience...Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity" Colossians 3:12-14.

The key to the balance of God's nature is found in love. True love takes the attention off ourselves and puts it onto other people. This kind of love acts like a balancing wheel for all other aspects of God's nature:

Knowledge (1 Corinthians 8:1-3).

Power (Nahum 1:2-7; 1 Cor.13:1-2; 2 Tim.1:7).

Holiness (Nehemiah 9:17-21).

Faith (Galatians 5:6).

"Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ" Eph.4:15 (see also Eph 4:24).

Christian growth means growing in the likeness of God's nature. As we grow in our understanding of God's nature, the Holy Spirit works to conform us to that nature (Romans 8:29).

"And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God" Col.1:10 (see also Col 1:25-28).

Walking in Forgiveness