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− | <p>[[#introduction"|Introduction | + | <p>[[#introduction"|Introduction]]</p> |
− | <p>[[#testimony"|Testimony: Free After 40 Years | + | <p>[[#testimony"|Testimony: Free After 40 Years]]</p> |
− | <p>[[#epidemic"|A Growing Epidemic | + | <p>[[#epidemic"|A Growing Epidemic]]</p> |
− | <p>[[#harm"|What's The Harm? | + | <p>[[#harm"|What's The Harm?]]</p> |
− | <p>[[#quiz"|Quiz: Are You Hooked? | + | <p>[[#quiz"|Quiz: Are You Hooked?]]</p> |
− | <p>[[#problem"|The Heart Of The Problem | + | <p>[[#problem"|The Heart Of The Problem]]</p> |
− | <p>[[#bible"|What The Bible Says About Pornography | + | <p>[[#bible"|What The Bible Says About Pornography]]</p> |
− | <p>[[#freedom"|Ten Steps To Freedom In Christ | + | <p>[[#freedom"|Ten Steps To Freedom In Christ]]</p> |
− | <p> | + | <p>1. Turn To Jesus! <br> |
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− | </strong> | + | </strong>5. Identify Your Triggers <strong><br> |
− | </strong> | + | </strong>6. "HALT" <strong><br> |
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− | + | </strong>9. Grow In God's Word <strong><br> | |
− | + | </strong>10. Pray Continually </p> | |
− | + | <p>[[#ImportantPrayer|The Most Important Prayer]]</p> | |
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+ | <p>God wants us to walk in the power of the Holy Spirit and to experience His victory in every area of our lives. Tragically, sin and addiction can quickly rob us of the joy and freedom we should enjoy through Christ Jesus. </p> | ||
<p>Sin has been around since Satan convinced Adam and Eve that they needed something outside of God's will, but it is increasingly evident in our culture today. Behavior that used to be considered shameful is now flaunted. Recently, there has been an astronomical rise in the amount of pornography which is readily available over the Internet, on television, and in other media. Consequently, more people are exposed to it – and more are hooked. Although Christians may think they should be immune to pornography's attraction, increasing numbers of believers are falling prey to its powerful lure and becoming addicted. </p> | <p>Sin has been around since Satan convinced Adam and Eve that they needed something outside of God's will, but it is increasingly evident in our culture today. Behavior that used to be considered shameful is now flaunted. Recently, there has been an astronomical rise in the amount of pornography which is readily available over the Internet, on television, and in other media. Consequently, more people are exposed to it – and more are hooked. Although Christians may think they should be immune to pornography's attraction, increasing numbers of believers are falling prey to its powerful lure and becoming addicted. </p> | ||
<p>If you feel trapped in an endless cycle of lust, guilt, and broken promises, God wants to set you free! Jesus said, “The thief comes only to steal, and kill, and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and might have it abundantly” ( John 10:10 , NRSV). The Bible promises that the power of sin is broken by Christ as we surrender to Him (see Romans 6:1-14 ). </p> | <p>If you feel trapped in an endless cycle of lust, guilt, and broken promises, God wants to set you free! Jesus said, “The thief comes only to steal, and kill, and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and might have it abundantly” ( John 10:10 , NRSV). The Bible promises that the power of sin is broken by Christ as we surrender to Him (see Romans 6:1-14 ). </p> | ||
− | <p>As you read this booklet, may you discover how much God wants to forgive you, deliver you, and give you the abundant life that He has promised to all who follow Him. </p | + | <p>As you read this booklet, may you discover how much God wants to forgive you, deliver you, and give you the abundant life that He has promised to all who follow Him. </p><div id="testimony</div>Testimony: Free After 40 Years ''' |
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<p>Outwardly, Phil and Bobi Naukam looked like a happy couple. With others, Phil seemed kind and friendly, but alone with Bobi and their three children, he was sarcastic, abusive, and full of rage. The underlying reason: his 40-year addiction to pornography since age 13. As a young man, Phil served in the military, where porn was considered macho. He recalls that when he married Bobi, “I didn't know what marriage was about. Playboy taught me about relationships and intimacy.” Bobi thought the problem was solved when she told him to get rid of those magazines – but secretly, he remained heavily addicted for 33 years of their marriage. Keeping such a big secret from those closest to him caused Phil to become increasingly withdrawn and emotionally absent from the family. </p> | <p>Outwardly, Phil and Bobi Naukam looked like a happy couple. With others, Phil seemed kind and friendly, but alone with Bobi and their three children, he was sarcastic, abusive, and full of rage. The underlying reason: his 40-year addiction to pornography since age 13. As a young man, Phil served in the military, where porn was considered macho. He recalls that when he married Bobi, “I didn't know what marriage was about. Playboy taught me about relationships and intimacy.” Bobi thought the problem was solved when she told him to get rid of those magazines – but secretly, he remained heavily addicted for 33 years of their marriage. Keeping such a big secret from those closest to him caused Phil to become increasingly withdrawn and emotionally absent from the family. </p> | ||
<p>Bobi says that The 700 Club was her mainstay during those turbulent years. When she had nowhere else to turn, she called The 700 Club Prayer Center for help. “Whenever I had a crisis, I would call,” she says. “Our daughter had seven surgeries, including a cancer diagnosis before age 15. Phil didn't go with me for the surgeries. When I was in the hospital waiting room, I'd call CBN's toll-free prayer line. Sometimes they would call me, and I would give them 27 requests! They were my mentors.” </p> | <p>Bobi says that The 700 Club was her mainstay during those turbulent years. When she had nowhere else to turn, she called The 700 Club Prayer Center for help. “Whenever I had a crisis, I would call,” she says. “Our daughter had seven surgeries, including a cancer diagnosis before age 15. Phil didn't go with me for the surgeries. When I was in the hospital waiting room, I'd call CBN's toll-free prayer line. Sometimes they would call me, and I would give them 27 requests! They were my mentors.” </p> | ||
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<p>Soon after, Phil finally recognized what a terrible toll this “harmless” activity was taking on himself, his wife, his children, and his relationship with the Lord. He cried out to God: “I don't want to be like this. Help me get out!” His prayer was answered through a Christian ministry to porn addicts, where he found a deeper relationship with Christ and learned the importance of yielding to God and being transparent with others. After the decades it took to reach a breaking point and finally be ready to surrender to God, Phil achieved a total victory over his lifelong obsession in just a matter of weeks. </p> | <p>Soon after, Phil finally recognized what a terrible toll this “harmless” activity was taking on himself, his wife, his children, and his relationship with the Lord. He cried out to God: “I don't want to be like this. Help me get out!” His prayer was answered through a Christian ministry to porn addicts, where he found a deeper relationship with Christ and learned the importance of yielding to God and being transparent with others. After the decades it took to reach a breaking point and finally be ready to surrender to God, Phil achieved a total victory over his lifelong obsession in just a matter of weeks. </p> | ||
<p>In 2002, Phil and Bobi renewed their wedding vows, and today they minister to others who want to break their addiction to porn. Bobi eventually made a return trip to CBN – this time, with Phil. She introduced her husband, saying joyfully, “I brought my miracle with me!” </p> | <p>In 2002, Phil and Bobi renewed their wedding vows, and today they minister to others who want to break their addiction to porn. Bobi eventually made a return trip to CBN – this time, with Phil. She introduced her husband, saying joyfully, “I brought my miracle with me!” </p> | ||
− | <p>Phil and Bobi have found true freedom in Christ – and you can, too! </p | + | <p>Phil and Bobi have found true freedom in Christ – and you can, too! </p><div id="epidemic</div>A Growing Epidemic ''' |
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<p>A Christian may think he or she is the only believer in town struggling with porn. Unfortunately, that's far from true. Addiction to pornography is rapidly becoming an epidemic throughout our society and even in the Church. </p> | <p>A Christian may think he or she is the only believer in town struggling with porn. Unfortunately, that's far from true. Addiction to pornography is rapidly becoming an epidemic throughout our society and even in the Church. </p> | ||
<p>The main reason: widespread accessibility. What used to be available only in a city's red-light district is now in plain view on the covers of sexy magazines at convenience stores … in Hollywood films, TV shows and commercials … on life-size posters at the mall and larger-than-life billboards along the highway … in suggestive lingerie ads in the Sunday newspaper … and on millions of web sites. </p> | <p>The main reason: widespread accessibility. What used to be available only in a city's red-light district is now in plain view on the covers of sexy magazines at convenience stores … in Hollywood films, TV shows and commercials … on life-size posters at the mall and larger-than-life billboards along the highway … in suggestive lingerie ads in the Sunday newspaper … and on millions of web sites. </p> | ||
<p>Years ago, people had to take a risk to visit an “adult bookstore” – after all, they might be seen by someone they knew! But with the Internet, people can now inflame and indulge their sexual appetites with erotic material at any time, in any neighborhood, in the total privacy of their living rooms. </p> | <p>Years ago, people had to take a risk to visit an “adult bookstore” – after all, they might be seen by someone they knew! But with the Internet, people can now inflame and indulge their sexual appetites with erotic material at any time, in any neighborhood, in the total privacy of their living rooms. </p> | ||
<p>Although pornography is more common among men, many women are also becoming hooked – not so much by visual imagery, but by the emotional intimacy available through Internet chat rooms. </p> | <p>Although pornography is more common among men, many women are also becoming hooked – not so much by visual imagery, but by the emotional intimacy available through Internet chat rooms. </p> | ||
− | <p>People often hope that their desire for porn will diminish when they get married or grow older, but the emotional and physiological factors can be continuing problems. </p | + | <p>People often hope that their desire for porn will diminish when they get married or grow older, but the emotional and physiological factors can be continuing problems. </p><div id="harm</div>What's The Harm? ''' |
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<p>Many people deny or rationalize their use of porn, saying: “It's only entertainment! What's the harm in looking at pictures? God created beautiful bodies, and I enjoy seeing them. After all, looking doesn't hurt anybody!” </p> | <p>Many people deny or rationalize their use of porn, saying: “It's only entertainment! What's the harm in looking at pictures? God created beautiful bodies, and I enjoy seeing them. After all, looking doesn't hurt anybody!” </p> | ||
<p>The truth is, looking at pornographic images erodes healthy relationships and can easily become a pathway to adultery and other serious problems. Sexual intercourse within marriage draws a couple together physically, emotionally and spiritually as they desire to please one another; it can also produce the gift of children. In contrast, self-stimulation and sexual gratification for its own sake is simply to fulfill one's own lust. </p> | <p>The truth is, looking at pornographic images erodes healthy relationships and can easily become a pathway to adultery and other serious problems. Sexual intercourse within marriage draws a couple together physically, emotionally and spiritually as they desire to please one another; it can also produce the gift of children. In contrast, self-stimulation and sexual gratification for its own sake is simply to fulfill one's own lust. </p> | ||
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<p>Tragically, a casual interest in so-called “soft-core” porn can develop into an insatiable thirst for hard-core porn, leading some addicts into strip clubs, massage parlors, voyeurism, child pornography, and pedophilia. </p> | <p>Tragically, a casual interest in so-called “soft-core” porn can develop into an insatiable thirst for hard-core porn, leading some addicts into strip clubs, massage parlors, voyeurism, child pornography, and pedophilia. </p> | ||
<p>Some people feel so hopelessly trapped that they think there is no way out. One man told CBN that he almost committed suicide because of his lifelong addiction to pornography. He said, “I was flawed to the point where there was nothing that could be done about me. And so the only alternative was to end my life.” Fortunately, he realized he was wrong – and that there is hope. </p> | <p>Some people feel so hopelessly trapped that they think there is no way out. One man told CBN that he almost committed suicide because of his lifelong addiction to pornography. He said, “I was flawed to the point where there was nothing that could be done about me. And so the only alternative was to end my life.” Fortunately, he realized he was wrong – and that there is hope. </p> | ||
− | <p>Respected counselors who work with child molesters, voyeurs, sadomasochists, and rapists say that pornography is usually a significant factor in these behaviors. Shortly before his execution, serial killer Ted Bundy invited Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family to interview him on death row. Bundy urgently wanted to warn people about the terrible dangers of porn. A report about the interview is featured on the "http://www.focusonthefamily.com/docstudy/newsletters/A000000761.cfm | + | <p>Respected counselors who work with child molesters, voyeurs, sadomasochists, and rapists say that pornography is usually a significant factor in these behaviors. Shortly before his execution, serial killer Ted Bundy invited Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family to interview him on death row. Bundy urgently wanted to warn people about the terrible dangers of porn. A report about the interview is featured on the "http://www.focusonthefamily.com/docstudy/newsletters/A000000761.cfm|web site, Family.org </a>. </p> |
<p>“I was a normal person,” Bundy said. “I had good friends. I led a normal life, except for this one, small but very potent and destructive segment that I kept very secret and close to myself.” And so an addicting behavior that began at age 13 when he found dirty magazines in a dumpster culminated in the brutal murders of 28 innocent women and girls. </p> | <p>“I was a normal person,” Bundy said. “I had good friends. I led a normal life, except for this one, small but very potent and destructive segment that I kept very secret and close to myself.” And so an addicting behavior that began at age 13 when he found dirty magazines in a dumpster culminated in the brutal murders of 28 innocent women and girls. </p> | ||
<p>While Ted Bundy represents the extreme, “Jeff” is more typical. He and his lovely wife live in a nice suburban home with their kids and are active at church. But Jeff never felt accepted by his father and used porn to soothe the hurt. This eventually led to squandering money on prostitutes. When his wife discovered his infidelity, she was shocked to learn that they were heavily in debt, his job could be in jeopardy, and he needed to be tested for sexually transmitted diseases, including AIDS. After intensive work and Christian counseling, Jeff was delivered from his addicting actions and their marriage was saved – but even so, it was a long time before Jeff regained his wife's trust. </p> | <p>While Ted Bundy represents the extreme, “Jeff” is more typical. He and his lovely wife live in a nice suburban home with their kids and are active at church. But Jeff never felt accepted by his father and used porn to soothe the hurt. This eventually led to squandering money on prostitutes. When his wife discovered his infidelity, she was shocked to learn that they were heavily in debt, his job could be in jeopardy, and he needed to be tested for sexually transmitted diseases, including AIDS. After intensive work and Christian counseling, Jeff was delivered from his addicting actions and their marriage was saved – but even so, it was a long time before Jeff regained his wife's trust. </p> | ||
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<p>If you're wondering whether you're hooked on porn, answer the following questions honestly: <br> | <p>If you're wondering whether you're hooked on porn, answer the following questions honestly: <br> | ||
1. Do your family or friends say you spend too much time on the Internet? <br> | 1. Do your family or friends say you spend too much time on the Internet? <br> | ||
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10. Have you vowed to stop, only to give in the next time temptation arises? </p> | 10. Have you vowed to stop, only to give in the next time temptation arises? </p> | ||
<p>Saying “Yes” to any questions, especially numbers 3 through 10, may indicate that pornography has some power over your life. But take courage! With God's help, you can win a resounding victory over sexual temptation! <br> | <p>Saying “Yes” to any questions, especially numbers 3 through 10, may indicate that pornography has some power over your life. But take courage! With God's help, you can win a resounding victory over sexual temptation! <br> | ||
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<p>Within each person, God has placed a fundamental need for intimacy. We see this clearly in creation, when God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone” ( Genesis 2:18 ). This desire for emotional intimacy is normally filled through healthy relationships with one's parents, siblings, friends, and spouse. For various reasons, however, some people struggle to connect with others and have difficulty developing close relationships. When people feel empty on the inside, this emotional vacuum can be easily filled with a counterfeit intimacy – selfish sexual gratification. True intimacy satisfies this God-given need, but fantasies and masturbation leave people feeling empty, worthless, and trapped in a vicious cycle. The more they use pornography, the more it separates them from others and hinders their ability to develop healthy relationships. The more alone they feel, the greater their desire for intimacy, and the more they are driven to fill the void with pornography. | <p>Within each person, God has placed a fundamental need for intimacy. We see this clearly in creation, when God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone” ( Genesis 2:18 ). This desire for emotional intimacy is normally filled through healthy relationships with one's parents, siblings, friends, and spouse. For various reasons, however, some people struggle to connect with others and have difficulty developing close relationships. When people feel empty on the inside, this emotional vacuum can be easily filled with a counterfeit intimacy – selfish sexual gratification. True intimacy satisfies this God-given need, but fantasies and masturbation leave people feeling empty, worthless, and trapped in a vicious cycle. The more they use pornography, the more it separates them from others and hinders their ability to develop healthy relationships. The more alone they feel, the greater their desire for intimacy, and the more they are driven to fill the void with pornography. | ||
Freedom comes by dealing with the heart – the deepest inner-core of our being. </p> | Freedom comes by dealing with the heart – the deepest inner-core of our being. </p> | ||
<p>Jesus emphasized the importance of the inner life by saying, “For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, … [and] adultery” ( Mark 7:21 ). Also, Paul wrote: “You must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more” ( Ephesians 4:17 b-19). <br> | <p>Jesus emphasized the importance of the inner life by saying, “For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, … [and] adultery” ( Mark 7:21 ). Also, Paul wrote: “You must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more” ( Ephesians 4:17 b-19). <br> | ||
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<p>Although God's Word doesn't specifically mention pornography, it most definitely addresses the issues of inappropriate sexual arousal and promiscuousness. The Ten Commandments say, “You shall not commit adultery” and “You shall not covet … your neighbor's wife” ( Exodus 20:14, 17 ). But Jesus set an even higher standard – clearly warning about the destructiveness of “just looking.” He said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell” ( Matthew 5:27-29 ). Jesus was using a figure of speech to say that we should take drastic action – to do whatever it takes – to stop sinning. Obviously, that means not looking with a lustful eye. </p> | <p>Although God's Word doesn't specifically mention pornography, it most definitely addresses the issues of inappropriate sexual arousal and promiscuousness. The Ten Commandments say, “You shall not commit adultery” and “You shall not covet … your neighbor's wife” ( Exodus 20:14, 17 ). But Jesus set an even higher standard – clearly warning about the destructiveness of “just looking.” He said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell” ( Matthew 5:27-29 ). Jesus was using a figure of speech to say that we should take drastic action – to do whatever it takes – to stop sinning. Obviously, that means not looking with a lustful eye. </p> | ||
<p>Similarly, Proverbs cautions us not to underestimate the tremendous power of visual enticement. “Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for … the adulteress preys upon your very life. Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned?” ( Proverbs 6:25-27 ). </p> | <p>Similarly, Proverbs cautions us not to underestimate the tremendous power of visual enticement. “Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for … the adulteress preys upon your very life. Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned?” ( Proverbs 6:25-27 ). </p> | ||
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<p>Galatians 5 lists many pitfalls, beginning with sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery. It concludes by giving us a clear choice: “Those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. ... Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit” (vs. 21b-25). </p> | <p>Galatians 5 lists many pitfalls, beginning with sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery. It concludes by giving us a clear choice: “Those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. ... Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit” (vs. 21b-25). </p> | ||
<p>Are you ready to choose God's pathway to spiritual victory? </p> | <p>Are you ready to choose God's pathway to spiritual victory? </p> | ||
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<p>Once you make a decision to turn away from sin, there are a number of important things you must do to achieve lasting triumph over temptation and addicting actions. </p> | <p>Once you make a decision to turn away from sin, there are a number of important things you must do to achieve lasting triumph over temptation and addicting actions. </p> | ||
<p><strong>1. Turn To Jesus! </strong></p> | <p><strong>1. Turn To Jesus! </strong></p> | ||
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<p>Simply pray: </p> | <p>Simply pray: </p> | ||
<p>“Jesus, I confess that I have sinned again and again. I feel trapped in addicting habits, but I am reaching out to you in hope and faith. Thank You for dying on the cross for me. Please forgive me and grant me a new start today. I give myself to You and invite You to be Lord of my life. Thank You for saving me from the power of sin and death. Please fill me with Your Holy Spirit and give me Your power, wisdom and grace so that I can obey You and walk according to Your ways every moment of every day. Amen.” </p> | <p>“Jesus, I confess that I have sinned again and again. I feel trapped in addicting habits, but I am reaching out to you in hope and faith. Thank You for dying on the cross for me. Please forgive me and grant me a new start today. I give myself to You and invite You to be Lord of my life. Thank You for saving me from the power of sin and death. Please fill me with Your Holy Spirit and give me Your power, wisdom and grace so that I can obey You and walk according to Your ways every moment of every day. Amen.” </p> | ||
− | <p>If you prayed the prayer, "http://www.cbn.com/contact/feedback-salvation.aspx | + | <p>If you prayed the prayer, "http://www.cbn.com/contact/feedback-salvation.aspx|please let us know </a>. We would like to send you some resources to help you begin your new relationship with God. </p> |
<p>In 1 John 1:8-9 , God promises to forgive all our sins if we are honest with Him about our failings. Look at King David. The Bible spares no detail about how this great hero of Israel failed miserably when he was tempted sexually (see 2 Samuel 11:1-12 :25). When David should have been on the battlefield with his men, he lingered in Jerusalem and happened to see a beautiful woman bathing on her rooftop. Now, that accidental glimpse was not sin. But he allowed his eyes to linger, and that led to lust, which in turn led to adultery, lies, betrayal, and murder. </p> | <p>In 1 John 1:8-9 , God promises to forgive all our sins if we are honest with Him about our failings. Look at King David. The Bible spares no detail about how this great hero of Israel failed miserably when he was tempted sexually (see 2 Samuel 11:1-12 :25). When David should have been on the battlefield with his men, he lingered in Jerusalem and happened to see a beautiful woman bathing on her rooftop. Now, that accidental glimpse was not sin. But he allowed his eyes to linger, and that led to lust, which in turn led to adultery, lies, betrayal, and murder. </p> | ||
<p>David fell into the pattern of sin described in James 1:14-15 : “But each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” </p> | <p>David fell into the pattern of sin described in James 1:14-15 : “But each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” </p> | ||
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<p><strong>9. Grow In God's Word </strong></p> | <p><strong>9. Grow In God's Word </strong></p> | ||
<p>This teaching is full of powerful Scripture verses to help you grow in spiritual strength and maturity. Take time to look them up and underline them in your Bible, and memorize the ones that are most helpful to you personally. Here are some additional passages to study: </p> | <p>This teaching is full of powerful Scripture verses to help you grow in spiritual strength and maturity. Take time to look them up and underline them in your Bible, and memorize the ones that are most helpful to you personally. Here are some additional passages to study: </p> | ||
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− | <td >Genesis 39 1 </td> | + | <td>Genesis 39:1</td> |
− | <td >Corinthians 10:12-13 </td> | + | <td>Corinthians 10:12-13</td> |
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− | <td>Psalm 51 2 </td> | + | <td>Psalm 51:2</td> |
− | <td>Corinthians 10:3-5 </td> | + | <td>Corinthians 10:3-5</td> |
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− | <td>Psalm 119:9-11 </td> | + | <td>Psalm 119:9-11</td> |
− | <td>Galatians 5:1, 13, 16-18 </td> | + | <td>Galatians 5:1, 13, 16-18</td> |
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<td>Proverbs 6:20-24</td> | <td>Proverbs 6:20-24</td> | ||
− | <td>Ephesians 2:10 </td> | + | <td>Ephesians 2:10</td> |
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− | <td>Proverbs 23:26-28 | + | <td>Proverbs 23:26-28</td> |
− | <td>Ephesians 5:1-33 | + | <td>Ephesians 5:1-33</td> |
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− | <td >Daniel 3 | + | <td>Daniel 3</td> |
− | <td>Ephesians 6:10-18 | + | <td>Ephesians 6:10-18</td> |
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− | <td >Matthew 26:41 | + | <td>Matthew 26:41</td> |
− | <td>Philippians 4:8 | + | <td>Philippians 4:8</td> |
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− | <td>Mark 7:20-23 | + | <td>Mark 7:20-23</td> |
− | <td | + | <td>Colossians 3:1-10</td> |
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− | <td>Luke 4:1-12 1 | + | <td>Luke 4:1-12 1</td> |
− | <td>Thessalonians 4:1-8 | + | <td>Thessalonians 4:1-8</td> |
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− | <td>John 10:10 1 | + | <td>John 10:10 1</td> |
− | <td>Timothy 6:11-12 | + | <td>Timothy 6:11-12</td> |
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− | <td>John 15:1-17 | + | <td>John 15:1-17</td> |
− | <td>2 Timothy 2:22 | + | <td>2 Timothy 2:22</td> |
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− | <td>John 17:3 | + | <td>John 17:3</td> |
− | <td>Titus 2:11-14 | + | <td>Titus 2:11-14</td> |
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− | <td>Acts 15:28-29 | + | <td>Acts 15:28-29</td> |
− | <td | + | <td>1 Peter 2:16</td> |
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− | <td | + | <td>Romans 1:16-32</td> |
− | <td | + | <td>1 Peter 4:1-6</td> |
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− | <td | + | <td>Romans 6:23</td> |
− | <td | + | <td>Hebrews 4:15-16</td> |
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− | <td | + | <td>Romans 7:15-8 :14</td> |
− | <td | + | <td>James 1:13-15</td> |
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− | <td | + | <td>Romans 12:1-2</td> |
− | <td | + | <td>James 4:1-10</td> |
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− | <td | + | <td>Romans 13:12-14</td> |
− | <td | + | <td>Revelation 2:7</td> |
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<p><strong>10. Pray Continually </strong></p> | <p><strong>10. Pray Continually </strong></p> | ||
<p>Prayer is our lifeline to the Savior, who can rescue us from every trial, temptation and addiction. The Bible says, “Pray continually” ( 1 Thessalonians 5:17 ). You may wish to be guided by this wonderful prayer that Jesus gave His disciples in Matthew 6:9 b-13: </p> | <p>Prayer is our lifeline to the Savior, who can rescue us from every trial, temptation and addiction. The Bible says, “Pray continually” ( 1 Thessalonians 5:17 ). You may wish to be guided by this wonderful prayer that Jesus gave His disciples in Matthew 6:9 b-13: </p> | ||
− | <p>“Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name.” [Spend time praising God for His love, wisdom and power, and for all that He has done for you.] </p> | + | <p>“Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name.” [Spend time praising God for His love, wisdom and power, and for all that He has done for you.]</p> |
<p>“Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” [Ask God to fulfill His marvelous purposes in your life, in the lives of your loved ones, and others]. </p> | <p>“Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” [Ask God to fulfill His marvelous purposes in your life, in the lives of your loved ones, and others]. </p> | ||
<p>“Give us today our daily bread.” [Pray that you will trust Him to give you the strength you need for every situation you may encounter today. Lift up any other needs you or your family may have.] </p> | <p>“Give us today our daily bread.” [Pray that you will trust Him to give you the strength you need for every situation you may encounter today. Lift up any other needs you or your family may have.] </p> | ||
− | <p>“Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.” [Confess any sins you have committed and forgive anyone who has sinned against you. | + | <p>“Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.” [Confess any sins you have committed and forgive anyone who has sinned against you.</p> |
<p>“And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.” [Ask God to help you obey as He leads you away from the road that leads to evil and destruction and guides you in the paths of righteousness. Spend time listening to His voice speaking in your heart, giving you encouragement, admonition, or instructions. Commit all that you say and do today unto Him.] Amen! </p> | <p>“And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.” [Ask God to help you obey as He leads you away from the road that leads to evil and destruction and guides you in the paths of righteousness. Spend time listening to His voice speaking in your heart, giving you encouragement, admonition, or instructions. Commit all that you say and do today unto Him.] Amen! </p> | ||
− | <p>May God bless you as you trust Him each day for strength, wisdom and victory. </p | + | <p>May God bless you as you trust Him each day for strength, wisdom and victory. </p><strong><div id="ImportantPrayer"></div>The Most Important Prayer </strong>''' |
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<p>If you have never asked Jesus to be your Lord and Savior and don't know how, it's easy. It's so simple that many people think it can't be for real . . . but it is! God knew that not one of us would be able to personally make up for the things He doesn't want us to do. This is called sinning or rebelling against God. So He sent His Son Jesus to pay the penalty for the sins of every person once and for all. </p> | <p>If you have never asked Jesus to be your Lord and Savior and don't know how, it's easy. It's so simple that many people think it can't be for real . . . but it is! God knew that not one of us would be able to personally make up for the things He doesn't want us to do. This is called sinning or rebelling against God. So He sent His Son Jesus to pay the penalty for the sins of every person once and for all. </p> | ||
<p>For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. ( Rom. 3:23 ) </p> | <p>For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. ( Rom. 3:23 ) </p> | ||
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<p>Don't wait another moment, pray this prayer right now and put God in charge of your life: </p> | <p>Don't wait another moment, pray this prayer right now and put God in charge of your life: </p> | ||
<p>Dear Lord Jesus, I believe that You are the Son of God. I believe that You died for my sins and rose from the grave. I invite You into my heart and receive You right now. Thank You for forgiveness. Thank You for a new life. Help me to be what You want me to be and live your life through me. Amen. </p> | <p>Dear Lord Jesus, I believe that You are the Son of God. I believe that You died for my sins and rose from the grave. I invite You into my heart and receive You right now. Thank You for forgiveness. Thank You for a new life. Help me to be what You want me to be and live your life through me. Amen. </p> | ||
− | <p>Have you invited Jesus Christ to be your Lord and Savior? <strong></strong>"http://secure.cbn.org/contact/feedback-salvation.asp | + | <p>Have you invited Jesus Christ to be your Lord and Savior? <strong></strong>"http://secure.cbn.org/contact/feedback-salvation.asp|Send us an e-mail </a>so that we can pray with you and send you some resources to help you get started in your walk with God. Or you can call our 24-hour prayer line at 1-800-759-0700. </p> |
<p>You have just made the most important decision of your life by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. With Him by your side, you are ready to face the road ahead. And you can face it with the assurance of God's promise: </p> | <p>You have just made the most important decision of your life by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. With Him by your side, you are ready to face the road ahead. And you can face it with the assurance of God's promise: </p> | ||
<p>And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. ( Rom. 8:28 ) </p> | <p>And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. ( Rom. 8:28 ) </p> | ||
<p>That means that God will cause even this pregnancy to work together for your good. And He will see you through the challenging moments and difficult decisions of the next few months. </p> | <p>That means that God will cause even this pregnancy to work together for your good. And He will see you through the challenging moments and difficult decisions of the next few months. </p> | ||
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Genesis 39:1</td> | Corinthians 10:12-13</td>
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Psalm 51:2</td> | Corinthians 10:3-5</td>
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Psalm 119:9-11</td> | Galatians 5:1, 13, 16-18</td>
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Proverbs 6:20-24</td> | Ephesians 2:10</td>
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Proverbs 23:26-28</td> | Ephesians 5:1-33</td>
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Daniel 3</td> | Ephesians 6:10-18</td>
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Matthew 26:41</td> | Philippians 4:8</td>
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Mark 7:20-23</td> | Colossians 3:1-10</td>
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Luke 4:1-12 1</td> | Thessalonians 4:1-8</td>
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John 10:10 1</td> | Timothy 6:11-12</td>
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John 15:1-17</td> | 2 Timothy 2:22</td>
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John 17:3</td> | Titus 2:11-14</td>
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Acts 15:28-29</td> | 1 Peter 2:16</td>
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Romans 1:16-32</td> | 1 Peter 4:1-6</td>
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Romans 6:23</td> | Hebrews 4:15-16</td>
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Romans 7:15-8 :14</td> | James 1:13-15</td>
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Romans 12:1-2</td> | James 4:1-10</td>
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Romans 13:12-14</td> | Revelation 2:7</td>
</tr> </table> 10. Pray Continually Prayer is our lifeline to the Savior, who can rescue us from every trial, temptation and addiction. The Bible says, “Pray continually” ( 1 Thessalonians 5:17 ). You may wish to be guided by this wonderful prayer that Jesus gave His disciples in Matthew 6:9 b-13: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name.” [Spend time praising God for His love, wisdom and power, and for all that He has done for you.] “Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” [Ask God to fulfill His marvelous purposes in your life, in the lives of your loved ones, and others]. “Give us today our daily bread.” [Pray that you will trust Him to give you the strength you need for every situation you may encounter today. Lift up any other needs you or your family may have.] “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.” [Confess any sins you have committed and forgive anyone who has sinned against you. “And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.” [Ask God to help you obey as He leads you away from the road that leads to evil and destruction and guides you in the paths of righteousness. Spend time listening to His voice speaking in your heart, giving you encouragement, admonition, or instructions. Commit all that you say and do today unto Him.] Amen! May God bless you as you trust Him each day for strength, wisdom and victory. The Most Important PrayerIf you have never asked Jesus to be your Lord and Savior and don't know how, it's easy. It's so simple that many people think it can't be for real . . . but it is! God knew that not one of us would be able to personally make up for the things He doesn't want us to do. This is called sinning or rebelling against God. So He sent His Son Jesus to pay the penalty for the sins of every person once and for all. For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. ( Rom. 3:23 ) While this may be hard for you to understand just now, all you need to do is believe that Jesus died for you, confess to God that there is sin in your life, and accept His forgiveness and His gift of eternal life. Don't wait another moment, pray this prayer right now and put God in charge of your life: Dear Lord Jesus, I believe that You are the Son of God. I believe that You died for my sins and rose from the grave. I invite You into my heart and receive You right now. Thank You for forgiveness. Thank You for a new life. Help me to be what You want me to be and live your life through me. Amen. Have you invited Jesus Christ to be your Lord and Savior? "http://secure.cbn.org/contact/feedback-salvation.asp%7CSend us an e-mail </a>so that we can pray with you and send you some resources to help you get started in your walk with God. Or you can call our 24-hour prayer line at 1-800-759-0700. You have just made the most important decision of your life by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. With Him by your side, you are ready to face the road ahead. And you can face it with the assurance of God's promise: And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. ( Rom. 8:28 ) That means that God will cause even this pregnancy to work together for your good. And He will see you through the challenging moments and difficult decisions of the next few months. |